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writes:Every time after sex I tell my BF that it was awesome ... he just saiz "Thank you" ... than he is relaxing and staring somewhere in the air .. or he is staring at me or just holding me ... he never tells me that it was great unless I ask him, than he saiz "yes babe I loved it!" Is this normal? Do guys do that? Do they just want to hear that they were awesome, but wont tell their girl that she is the best???I am not that kinda person that lies on their back. I have been always told that I can play in porn movies, so I know I am not bad in sex (at least I HOPE!) So is this normal for a guy? They just dont say it? Cause I would like him to tell me I was great sometimes ..I mean .. he does tell me when I give him BJ .. he is always loving it and he tells me afterwards .. but w sex its differentTHX
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reader, catlou18  +, writes (25 July 2008):
me or my partner never tell each other how great sex was afterwards, you just know if you love each other as much as you should do in a loving relationship. Sex isnt about having a score card, its just about the intimacy you share with that one special person. You sound paranoid to me, if you need your man to tell you everytime it was 'awesome'. Ive never know any bloke to comment and i havnt either! You just get on with it and if it feels great you both wil feel it!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (25 July 2008):
Well perhaps he is confident with you and with his abilities, so he doesn't feel the need to give you a performance review.
Why do you need him to compliment you about your sex life all the time? Are you as confident about it as you think you are?
If you made him a cup of tea would you expect him to come and tell you how amazing your tea is after every cup?
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI dont know why .. guys always called me their own personal porn star ... I guess that my looks help it .. and I like to experience a lot in bed .. I dont like one posititon and I am pretty into it (om .. lets say every 2minutes of my life??? haha) ... thats probably why
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): I think it's normal. I probably would be offended if I said something and he never did, but I never really say more than thank you too. He usually says something along those lines as well. You can say, "thanks for the awesome sex" or something.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (25 July 2008):
 It's very normal for a guy. We just don't like to talk about this stuff very much. That doesn't make it ok... he should definitely learn how to talk about it with you.
Also bear in mind that after sex a guy's mind is usually totally blank, and incapable of any thought whatsoever.
I suggest you wait until a good moment (not during or after sex) and then say that you'd like more communication about this. See how he handles it.
One last thing, why would you think 'that you can play in porn movies' is a good thing? You might want to question your aspirations on that one.
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