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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:When I met my bf..he was in a relationship with someone else. I didn´t know this till now. She found out that he was cheating on her with me and broke up with him. When she broke up with him... he tried to get her back and asked for space from me. We had our space and he came back after 2 months saying he had been confused coz he thot he had feelings for his ex and bla bla. Now 2 years later.. he wants to get married. I pushed him to tell me this story I am writing here coz I didn´t know this.. I have lost all the trust I had in him. I love him so much and he is so good to me. Do you think this is worth leaving him for...Please advise any thoughts... anything
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reader, shiraz  +, writes (2 September 2008):
hiyah, the fact that you dont trust him will have a huge affect on your relationship but rightly so you say you love this guy but does he genuinly love you? he cheated on his gf with you, without you knowing thats a situation in itself but then he goes on and leaves you for his gf! i wouldnt want him back! but love is a funny thing and it can make everything seem different.
It just seems that you deserve better than lowering yourself to his standards, he hasnt thought about you in the past your feelings and what damage its done to you. its easy for us to listen to our hearts rather than out heads but i feel in your case you should listen to your head to save your heart ( if you get me) this guy will hurt you time and time again and you shouldnt let yourself be put through it. be the stronger person and realise this now until its too late and you are married because it might seem like a good idea now but down the line this will creep back up and will always be there your never going to get away from it and by that time you will be in an even worse situation
Best of luck hope it goes ok - xxx
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