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anonymous
writes: im in a relationship with a man, have been for four years.but when i masturbate i often think of women kissing each other or just womens bodies. i also fantasize about two men being together. i never fantasize about heterosexual sex acts, always gay ones. the idea of two men or two women together turns me on. but not the idea of a man and a woman.however i do have great sex with my boyfriend all the time.what does this mean?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2008): My wife often fantasizes about other woman whilst she masturbates (though she says she used to feel weird afterwards). I think it comes down to the fact that womans figures are more alluring than males.. Don't worry, it's perfectly normal. Tell your fella and watch his pants tighten!!
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (12 January 2008):
It is human nature to want what is unattainable . In our fantasies, we are not limited by any physical barriers and we can fantasize anything we want. We live in our dreams and this can satisfy our inner urges.The dream world is more perfect than the real world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008): I don't know what it means but I think the general rule in life is that if you are not hurting anyone, then its ok. And your fantasies are not hurting anyone. Its not like you are fantasizing about sleeping with little children or about hurting another person. You are just fantasizing about homosexual acts. No one's hurt and you are getting pleasure out of it. So if no one is being hurt then it is quite alright. There is nothing inappropriate about it. Its ok, dear, don't stress.
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reader, xapathyxrebornx +, writes (12 January 2008):
Hun i always put this type of thing to "guys like seeing two women" and most girls i know love seeing gay guys in acts....
I myself am Bicurious so i imagine such acts. I'd say this is normal and nothing to worry aboout hun, its just your mind =] x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2008): I do the same. I don't think there is a specific meaning for it, I think it's more or less a fetish. The thought stimulates me but I'm not sure why because I'm not gay. I would say it's perfectly normal and nothing to worry about.
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