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writes:Hello! I'm going to tell you my problem...I hope you can help me with this. I'm at college and recently I met this guy. He is 3 years older than me, he is a senior (i don't know if that's what you call someone whe is at the last year of university). He is reallyyyy cute... We talked one time, about two hours or something like that, and we was really interesting... The thing is, I am interested in him. He has this great smile and I don't know what to do...I want to get to know him, to be able to talk to him...I see him some times at college, but I always too stupid and can't say hi...I'm shy when it comes to this kind of stuff. Everyone tells me I should go for it...But I just don't know how to make him interested in me...We've exchanged some glances, our eyes met sometimes and I never ever can't say a word...I'm so silly...What can I do to make him interested? How can I overcome this shyness thing? Yesterday for example, I saw him...And again I couldn't say anything. Monday I think he'll be at college...Please please help me...How can I do this? I know it sounds silly from someone studying at university, I should have overcome these silly fears...But I can't...When I'm not neutral towards someone, I mean when I have the slightest feeling for that person I find my self being unable to talk to them...Arghhh...I'm desperate...Sorry for the lousy english...And thanks!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionlol hi "first girl"! how did it went (the date)? I hope so...i will try to overcome this shyness thing...the next time I see him I'll try to at least, smile at him. I'll keep in touch. Thanks for the support!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): Hey its the 'first girl' again. I wish you all the best and im sure you will do fine.
This really is something that you can work life is too short not to take chances xx
ps - by the way im actually going on a date with one of the guys i used to have a crush on this weekend
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi guys, thanks for the answers!For the first girl, i'd like to say that I see myself in her story...they blocked your e-mail...:( I hope you are right...I'll try those "baby steps" then. hope it works...compacmaniac, thanks a lot for the advice!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): try and build up a conversationtry and say hi and ask a question and maybe he'll help start up the coversation. or talk to one of your friends and see if they'll start a conversation and bring you into it and then imagine you are just talkig to your friend. hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): Hey I know it can be hard but you have to try. Just take a second to read my story and advice.Ok for years I was painfully shy, I could't look at let alone speak to anyone I even had the slightest feelings for i just didn't feel worthy.Recently i joined facebook and got in touch with everyone from school (im much more confident now) and guess what. every guy i ever had a crush on liked me back and i never knew. I came across as unapproachable kinda like an ice queen lol.My advice to you would be to take baby steps. Firstly when you catch each others eye smile at him.After a while say hi or something as you pass. Its suprisingly easy and prehaps you could practice it on guys your not into.Things should progress from there. My bet is he secretly wants to talk to you but is finding you unapproachable or is just thinking your not that into him.Please send me a message and tell me how you go its [e-mail blocked] and good luck xx
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