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anonymous
writes:im 15 n ive recently started having serious sexual thoughts about a lad i know. ive never thought like this before n it shocked me a bit. he says he thinks about me in THAT way too - he texts me all the time saying things about sex n like 'imagine us together. with my hard **** deep inside you' n he always tells me he gets a hard on when we talk...instead of this shocking me, it excites me - is this wrong at my age? x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): It's a natural reaction you get turned on by this, these feelings are coming so naturally to you because you are in the middle of sexual maturity, also your hormones are pretty wild at that age. Sex is a natural thing and is not wrong but agreed, it really doesnt mean youre ready to have sex yet. This guy may make you feel flirty and turned on however you are also at an age where you're strong enough to prevent people from taking advantage of you, have flirty fun but be on your guard and i dnt know how old the guy is but REMEMBER there are plenty of guys out there who have one thing on the brain and he may just want to use you. be careful and trust your best judgement around this guy. in the meantime you could also try bringing yourself to orgasm so those sexual feelings are excercised more. however it's good to try this when you feel REALLY stimulated maybe after youve been on the phone to him- orgasms come naturally, not when youre expected to cum. And also, dont worry, there is nothing whatsoever wrong with this either it's a healthy, natural way to discover about sex and your sexualality. take care x :)
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (19 April 2008):
 i wouldnt be able to see a problem in this. but make sure he is telling the truth and find out where you stand before anything more happens
sparkii x
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): I wouldnt say it was wrong at all your body is becoming sexually mature. That doesnt mean that you should rush out and have sex though!. Just because he body is ready it doesnt mean that your mind is. So just try to wait until you are at least of legal age. if you really cant wait then I would suggest you really think about it long and hard before having sex. Make sure that you really love and care for the person your going to have sex with. And most of all make sure that this boy you have been texting isnt just interested in sex and nothing else!. the last thing you want is to sleep with him then have him loose intrest in you.
And most importantly, use protection!!!!!.
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2008): Nothing wrong with your feelings at all. But having sexual feelings doesn't mean you're ready for sex yet. If you don't feel ready to do things with him, then don't feel like you "should be" doing sexual things with him just because you two excite each other.
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