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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey aunts and uncles.Right well i posted a question on here not long ago, about butterflys for another boy?Well that boy is really messing with my head, when he's drunk he's ringing me telling me that im lush, that he loves me and the other day even crying saying he didnt want to lose me already even though he's only nown me for just over a week. Yet when he's sober he says i just want to be friends but then he'll get drunk and ring me telling me that he loves me. He says its something he "does" when he's drunk and he rings all his contacts, yet i was at a party with all my friends and it was just me he was ringing saying it? He doesnt tell anyone else, and last night he only rang me? Yet when he is sober he texts me all night right up untill earlier hours. This just confuses me even more. I feel like my relationship is slipping away with my boyfriend after a very unhappy year, and i can feel myself thinking about this boy all the time, and i even had to stop myself from crying yesterday when he said " i'll do anything for you as your my mate' The word 'mate' really hurt.He's said i cant speak to you how i want to, because you have a boyfriend and when i first met him he was all over me. Yet when i said me and my boyfriend might be coming to an end, he was like everybody going to hate me, as they will think im the person that has split you up (he doesnt no i like him!)and he kept stressing out over that, saying 'oh great, im going to have abusive texts off your friends.' which he knows he wont. Yet when i was just about to leave he said i hope you and your boyfriend dont finish, and i said to him are you really that selfish, that you would want me to stay with someone for the sake of you ? and he said no i just want the best for you babe, i dont want you too get hurt. Do what you feel is right.This boy isnt the brightest, but he has a lovely personallity and he is gorgeous. I no that he has been nown for going out and having drunken kisses when he's been out to a party, but he hasnt done anything else and when he's sober he is really shy, almost the opposite to when he's drunk.I dont no why, this boy makes me feel atractive and pretty again. What do you think? Does he like me/ not like me? or some of my friends think he's just backing off because i have a boyfriend? Why do you think he does these things when he's drunk?Please i need somebody to almost tell me what they think these actions mean. xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 June 2009): keep the issues separate
if your not happy with your boyfriend leave him but don't rush to be with this other boy as he sounds like ha hasn't got a clue what he wnats
he may really like you but is tryign (when sober) to be respectful of the fact you have a boyfriend
However you could leave your boyfriend and he could still play games
what would be so bad about being on your own for a while?
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