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*rissypro89
writes:Let's say you have been married to your husband for 13 years and his mother has been in contact with his ex but he hasn't. The ex-wife tells your husbands mother that they are still not legally divorced. He was able to get married to you in Las Vegas and it was overlooked because he was married in NY. He then starts calling over to the ex's house for the past 2 years (they didn't talk for many years about 7 years) the kids now are in their 20's and suddenly he has an interest in reaching them at such a late age. I told him to contact them but never thought it would come down to him speaking to the ex because the kids are never home. He doesn't bother contacting his kids on their cell but rather call their moms house and reaching her I think. It has been going on for 2 years now and I been pushing him to get the papers done. Do you know what he said to me IT ISN'T IMPORTANT TO HIM but we will get it done because he sees how much it bothers me. I can't believe he would ever tell me such a t hing? What would you think if your husband would ever tell you this?He doens't seem to grasp god forbid ever if something would ever come about that someone would have to see his 1st divorce decree. The only paper he has is when she sent him an action for divorce back in 1994 and I guess he put it aside and never finished it. He says he thought by him not signing it was final. I want to scream...
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reader, bettynotsweaty  +, writes (22 February 2009):
good grief, scream right in his face!
the very fact that he says it is not imporant to him, but is important to you - my god, he is the one who could get done for bigamy, and the fact that he doesnt really seem to be over his ex wife of over 13 years is nothing to do with you, aside from (if i were you) you being the one who will kick him in the balls over this if he doesnt sort HIS act out soon.
tell him you will divorce him if he wont divorce her (after all, clearly one of you has to go!), and perhaps speak to his ?ex and make her remember exactly why she dumped this idiot onto you in the first place in case he thinks he can have his cake and eat it. why not get him to have the kids over to visit? they are 20+, their mum need not be involved.
i mean jesus, does this guy think hes on big love and you can just go become mormons and it'll be fine?
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