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writes:Hi, This weekend I exchanged numbers with this girl that I work with. We have exchanged interest in each other and both find each other attractive. I am only 17 and I was wondering how long I should wait to call her? I really like her and she talks to my co-workers all the time about me being hot, how she likes me and wants to hang out. I'm really nervous and I don't want to mess this up, my brother says if I call today I will sound really desperate so I was thinking tommorow? My brother said Wednesday or Thursday but I have also heard girls hate waiting by the phone.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (24 March 2009):
 Call her, by all means. But not tomorrow. Wait ONE WEEK. I know, I know people will say that's too long, that you will keep her hanging, et cetera, but do it. Why? Because you want to be sure that she's interested. If she can't stay interested in you for seven days, is she really relationship material?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2009): I totally agree with 'dam'! Goodness, don't keep the poor girl hanging, hun! As a woman, I would be tickled pink if a guy phoned me in a timely fashion...keeping me hanging would not impress me. If she gave you the number on Saturday or even Sunday...get busy and call her. You want to, don't you? Being a gentleman is not an act of omission, it is an act of kindness. Ladies appreciate men who respect them and if she doesn't like this nice treatment from you, then she has self-respect issues and may not be the one for you. Treat her nicely all the time...don't do the mindgames. Do what you think is the right thing to do. Good luck and update us on how things go for you and her. Take care!
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