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writes:I've started seeing a girl that I've been good friends with over the last 6 months. We've only been seeing each other for about 6 weeks and been official for a few. However, we are both working abroad as teachers and our contracts end in about 5 months. Within about 2-3 months we will have to decide what we are doing and where we are going. She is from the US and I from the UK. I want to ask what she thinks about what we are going to do about each other after our contracts as I really like her but don't want to fall for her too much if she is just thinking it to be a short term relationship before moving on but I also don't want to scare her or freak her out by being too forward too soon.Any advice would be most appreciated,thank you in advance! Reply to this Question
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reader, itcantjustbeme  +, writes (2 September 2012):
 If you're wondering, chances are she's wondering too. I think you should just ask. I don't know her, but I figure she might react better if you bring it up kind of nonchalantly instead of trying to do the whole, "Listen, we need to talk..." approach. If she starts avoiding the topic then maybe you should consider the "we need to talk..." method, where you lay yourself on the line by telling her all the things you've been worried about and then see if that loosens her lips.
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reader, dangerouslyinlove0228  +, writes (31 August 2012):
 I think you should ask her. Ask her, Where your relationship is gonna be? Trust & Believe ... You're not gonna scare her. If anything, you being a guy should make the first move. She'll prob be turned on that you're willing to further your guys relationship just by asking. From my perspective, not all men are straightforward in relationship-wise & its really cute if a guy wants to know where the relationship stands in advance. It doesn't hurt to try, you know.
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