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writes:i'm dating this girl she's playing so hard to get. i've tried all i can but it seems like im failing. i wrote her a letter and she almost agreed then i wrote her a joke and she didint like it so she was so agree at me then at the end of time she forgave but did not accept me. please i just what to know how to control her temper and how i can get her. please im on my knees. Reply to this Question
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (31 August 2012):
Can you be more specific? From what I understand from your post, you are dating this girl, so what did she nearly agree to after you wrote the letter? What do you mean when you say that she didn’t accept you? If she’s dating you, it sounds like she’s accepted you. Or have you split up because of the joke or for some other reason? If she has a problem with her temper, you should try to encourage her to tell you if something has upset her before she gets angry. Ask her to let you know if she thinks something’s going to make her angry so that you can talk it through with her. Also, don’t be afraid to let her know how her temper makes you feel. If she knows it makes you unhappy, this may give her a reason to want to do something about it.
I hope this advice helps, perhaps you could be so kind as to post a follow-up and be a bit more specific about the problems you’re having, what your relationship is like with this girl at the moment and tell us how she’s playing hard to get? My fellow agony aunts will, I’m sure, be able to give you some great advice but it would help to know a bit more about your situation.
I wish you all the very best.
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