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writes:Sorry for it being long but i really need some help thank you. When guy friends says your beutifull is it flirting? They know i have a boyfriend who iv been with over a year but they comment on my looks alot and say good night beutifull at first i took it as just a complamint but they started doing it a little to much they were telling each other they flattered me enough for the day even. One of them asked if i think a picture of them was sexy i said i cant ansewr that i have a boyfriend but also truthly i find them really unatractive but i dint want to be mean sence they been really nice to me. How can i get them to stop? i mean i think its nice and all and i dont want to be a b*tch but its making me feel uncomfortable and guilty because i wouldnt like some chick telling my boyfriend how hot and handsome he is. I cant just tell my boyfriend hey two of my friends keep telling me im hot becuase he will just get pissed at them and want me to stop talking to them. THey all ready dont like each other but i know my boyfriend has nothing to worry about because i only like them as friends they live a coulps states away and are unatractive and just not my type but they are good as friends and i want to spend the rest of my life with my bf so i think telling him would just make it worse. But i dont want to be a jerk when there being nice should i just talk to them less? Should i tell my boyfriend? Should i just ignore it cuz it doesnt mean any thing to me? I really dont know what to do thank you.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (22 May 2011):
 Just ignore them. I'm pretty sure your boyfriend already knows other people think you're attractive and I doubt its going to really jeopardize your relationship in any way.But if its really bothering you then just tell them to stop. Say its flattering that they think you are beautiful but they don't need to keep telling you like that. I hope that helps.
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