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writes:I am 29 years old and female. I have been in one really serious relationship where I was in love with the boy and he was not in love with me until we broke up. After we broke up I met someone and was completely and fully in love. To the max, as was he. This lasted 8 months, then he dumped me the day after I buried my father. What a jerk. Anyway, since then I have only had a string of idiot lovers that have given me nothing but grief and it never lasts. I strive and wish and pray and hope for that special someone to come out from one of them, but it never materializes. I am not ugly, I know i am cute. I dress well, I have a job, I don't do drugs, I live on my own. I hold my own! I am a creative, educated and am a loving person in general. Guys never ever approach me. When they do it's just some skeezy jerk that just wants to bone me and I can't take it any more! I haven't been on a proper date in over 10 months. The last time I went on a date was with some guy (who was awesome), but he was into polyamorous lifestyle. Not cool. Where do I go from here? There are a couple guys on my radar, but they are SO shy. Painfully shy. When I talk to them I feel awkward and just want to tell them to get over it and hang out with me. Since that's likely not going to happen, what do I do? What's wrong with me? Am I unapproachable? What the fuzz?! I'm the only person I know that never ever ever ever ever gets a date and it's not because I don't want it. I can't take this anymore.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2011): I'm in the same situation as you are. I'm 23 and I have been in relationships since I was 13. I have had one serious relationship which lasted a year and a number of other relationships which lasted months. And all of these gave me nothing but heartbreak.
Like you I'm smart, cute, have a job and am very independent. I don't have a boring personality and have a good number of friends and yet I haven't yet had a boyfriend with whom I could spend a long time with. All my friends are in relationships since years or at least in good, solid ones while I'm the only one who has messed up relationships. I'm tired and fed-up and don't think I'll ever find love.
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