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writes: Okay, im in this "relationship" with this guy we've been good friends for about 3 years now and we've always liked each other. we started a bf/gf relationship in janurary but that was cut short due to my parents. so we still had all the same feelings just minus the title. everything was pretty ok until about the end of may after my graduation. we got into a argument over something stupid and i hung up on him, he called back we argued a bit more,he told dont call him anymore,i hung up on him again and we didnt talk for about a month. flash forward he sends me a message and i call him that night just to say wutsup and see how he's doing (and of course if he misses me). and out of nowhere he asks if i still love him...i told him i didnt know even though i did b/c i was scared that being open with him could only get me hurt again. i asked him how he felt about me and of course he's like he loves me and just because we didnt talk for a while doesnt mean his feelings changed. adn all this stuff. i didn't believe him at first because people lie but after talking for a few days i figured id try because he kept saying he wanted me to trust him more and to open up to him. so i did. and he completely did what i DIDNT WANT IN THE FIRST PLACE! he said we need to talk about the email you sent me and that hed call me back that night,he didnt. he hasnt called me since and he doesnt answer or return my calls. its so ridiculous, idk what to do though...what the hell is wrong with him???...HELP!!!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, dr.lenise +, writes (10 July 2006):
well i think you did the right thing at first trying to feel him out to see where he was coming from. seems like as long as he know you care for him the same he can run over you or should i say control the situation. thinking you are going to dance to his beat all the time but i will have my own music to dance to the next time around. also honey it seems like he has some personal promblems going on with himself and want to keep you unhappy. honey that same love you have for that young man put that same love towards loving yourself because every chance he get he is going to hurt you last but not least just ask your god to lead you to the right decision
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