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writes: Hey, im a 15 year old boy and i have fallen for another 15 year old girl. I have not known her long but i cant stop thinkin about her. But she is my mates ex girlfriend and i know my other mate likes her aswell. I dont know whether i should go for it and ask her out, because im afraid she will say no. I really want to go for it, but i need your advice. Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2006): Well to be honest it sounds like you've not got a lot to work on. I mean, you're kinda competing with your mates and the situation could be that she's more interested in your mate than you. And it can also cause bad feeling between you and your mates, if she said "yes" to any of you.
My advise would be to, first of all mention it to your mate that you wanna ask her out. Then it's kinda up to you what you do, depending on how her reacts. But speaking personally i try to act on instincts, even if sometimes it means putting number 1 first, if you get me.
A bit of advice on asking girls out, it's feels better to know that you tried and got rejected, than saying "what if?"Although don't be really reckless and just ask her straight away, plan it so you make sure you get the best chance of her accepting. And maybe, if you already haven't been doing, a good idea would be to give her a few signs or hints beforehand. Hopefully it'll be successful!!
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reader, kelbell +, writes (9 July 2006):
 I think u need to find out how your friend feels first(her ex),the last thing you wanna do would be to stir up bada vibes with him...if he gives u the ok go for it, if u dont you may regret it...and that would suck!
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