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writes:You know the usual "what's wrong?...nothing" between guys and girls, well it happens sometimes with my bf. But when I do tell him what's wrong, we usually get into a fight because he doesn't agree. So the next time, I am not sure if I want to tell him what's wrong because I don't want to fight. How do I break this cycle? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2012): The whole what's wrong question is interesting. What I've found when a guy or girl asks " whats wrong?" and doesn't get an answer or the usual nothing. It's because as a guy or girl you would expect your bf or gf to already know the answer. It's usually because the other person has said or done something to upset the other. I just got out of a long relationship, I remember asking and getting asked that question. She always said nothing but because I know everything about her, I always knew what was wrong. To answer your question, the next time you ask that question and get he usual answer. Don't push the issue, you should already know what's wrong, but if you don't think it's anythig you did, let it go and wait for him to tell you. It's hard and makes you wonder, but people just don't want to talk about it sometimes, so don't push.
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