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writes:Hi,I am trying online dating, and starting to have some success. But what if a girls sends me her picture and i know that i dont feel any attraction towards her. What is the best way to deal with this? Is there a nice way of saying it that i dont think it's going to go anywhere?Tanx Reply to this Question
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reader, missmel34  +, writes (7 December 2007):
 Hmmm......theres no nice way of telling a girl you don't find her attractive. You can still chat with her, but let it gradualy fade away. Don't answer her emails diligently, and certainly don't organise to meet her. Like all things they will fizzle away.
I think thats the best way, I know for me the last thing I would want a guy to tell me, even nicely, is that he didn't think I was pretty.
Let it fizzle away. The thing is, you're probably 1 guy out of 30 thats shes chatting to, just as she is 1 of many with you. Don't dampen her confidence.
Good Luck
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