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writes: heyok so this is just a question about where, and how to go from kissing, bt not leading to sex.I always have great fun with guys, kissing them, but i always get the impression during kissing these guys that they want more. and i know id like it to progress but i never really know what to do.i just need to now whats the next apropriate step to go into after kissing, and what im suposd to do. just to have a little more fun , and experience :)sometimes the guys will go to finger me but i dont know if thats too far??x
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reader, lola891027673  +, writes (23 October 2011):
you just kiss more, and longer(: 3
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reader, daletom +, writes (22 January 2008):
If you are kissing - REALLY kissing - you've already started leading him to sex.
The question should be, "What can we do short of sex?". The answer is, "Just about anything classified as 'foreplay'.". And what is "Going too far"? That question has been around for a LONG time, but at your age and the current state of your relationship I think you should hold off from the things that are intended to directly bring on orgasm, like oral sex, deep fingering, etc. Save that intimacy for a more special relationship.
Caressing and fondling, through your clothes or (later) under your clothes might be your next step.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (22 January 2008):
 After kissing , the next stage is light petting.You gently caress each other on your backs, hands and body. Then you progressed to heavy petting by touching those erroneous zones .If you feel that is enough , you stop it.
Fingering is too far...
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008): okay this is what i think.sometimes when a guy kisses you he would want you to go farther.and on my opinion i wouldn't go past the kissing just yet.to me it seems like he's trying to get into your pants.Just have fun but not to much fun because if you have to much fun it could lead into something else.I hope i helped.
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