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writes:Ive been reunited with extended family after some years. During this, I met my cousin, and we instantly hit it of - lots in common, same humour etc. We got drunk one night not long after and ended up sleeping together - which at first was weird...but then it was like we couldnt stop it. Now its happened on a few more occasions, and he always makes the first move. I dont know what this means? I care alot for him, and weirdly it feels right. I have no idea how he feels about me, and i feel awkward bringing it up. The first night we slept together i made a sharp exit the next day, only because i had things to do at home. He questioned me about it as he thought i felt bad about what had happened. I reassured him this wasnt the case. We have talked about what has happened and agreed not to tell anyone for fear of upsetting the family, but have both said that we dont feel bad about it.Do you think were sleeping together 'drunk' (apart from in the mornings) because we can hide behind it, or do you reckon its just because were drunk together, horny and hes satisfying a need?....Its not like either of us struggle to find partners. Hmmmm....Ideas please
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reader, shymexycpl  +, writes (22 February 2013):
 I am in this same situation. I have a cousin by marrage whom Im not really related to but my wife and her are kinda close family. When we all get drunk me and her flirt a little more than is supposed to. I think she likes it when I say un expected comments about sexual topics and see her get a little loosie goosie and touchy freindly with me. I dont mind because she is very pretty and hot but, when my wife notices it she gives me that look....lol she knows her cousin better than I do so I guess Im hitting a nerve. but when me and her are alone things just happen and we cant control it. I have never slept with her but that has been on my mind. Is it just a tease or foreplay for both of us, she is also married. I want to explore this more but I am also afraid. Someone please help us!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 August 2010): Being in love shouldn't be so complicated should it? It's so sad that people feel they have to hide from love like this. I don't think it's because you're drunk. Just be careful... I'm going through some hard times because of the family.
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