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writes:I'm a laid-back guy. When I go to high school in the morning I sit with all girls in the cafeteria before 1st class. I'm nice and I try to help people, and I'm wondering why I'm always the "nice" guy. All my friends are pairing up. It's just frustrating, and my dad is actually making fun of me for not having a girlfriend. (I'm a sophmore in high school btw.) What am I doing wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (8 November 2007):
 Dont strss about this it will happen for you when the time is right you will find someone who see's you as more then a friend so dont worry yourself about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): Just enjoy what you have, you will meet someone in the future so dont worry. Dont panic or be in a hurry. It will be really enjoyable when it comes. You sound a really lovely guy and i am sure you will be snapped up in the future. Just enjoy the young free and single scene for now. Just laugh at your dad, he is just having fun.
take care
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reader, kenny +, writes (8 November 2007):
 You are not doing anything wrong, your time will most certainly come. You are only young, you have got all the time in the world for girlfriends and dating. So what if some of your mates are getting girlfriends and you haven't, thats just the way it goes sometimes. In a while they will probably split up and you will be the one doing the dating, and they will be thinking the same about you. Just don't be in to much of a rush to meet anyone, take a laid back approach to it, and the likellhood is you find a girl to date when you very least expect it.
Good luck
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reader, adorkable_gg +, writes (8 November 2007):
 You're doing nothing wrong. It's perfectly normal to want a girlfriend once you see everyone else starting new relationships. Apparently, you're the nice guy. Don't worry. I can feed you the whole cliche of "nice guys finish last", but i'm sure you've heard it. The best I can say, is wait. There's at least one girl that's interested in you, she just feels too unsure of herself to say something.
Of course, if you don't want to be the nice guy, don't. But: don't change who you are because you're not getting the results you want. Eventually you'll find someone who adores you just as you are. Yes, it's in your best interest to wait. Just remember: girls get sick of the "bad boys"...a nice guy is always a pleasant option, which most of us take. [=
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