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male
age
51-59,
*arlyRiser72
writes:I have been dating a girl for about 2 months now. Just last week I did something that brought up a flag. She misunderstood care for trying to be controlling. When I last spoke to her about 5 days ago she said we are over, twice, but she agreed to meet and talk with me on Friday. This was the same day immeditly when it happened. I have not heard from her the entire day, no return calls or texts. So I started to worry something happend because this was very odd. She thought I was tring to be controlling and know where she was every minute. I wasn't. Aperently her ex-husband is a control freak, and because of their child he is still in her life, he is remarried and still gives her a hard time. So when I called left mesages and texts, I finaly asked if she was mad at me and for what? She told me in the beganing of the relationship that she ws a processer and dosn't make rash decisions. So on one of the nessages I told her look I won't call again, call me when you are ready to talk. She took that as I am never ever going to call again, thought I was angry (i wasn't) but she needs to call me. Huge misunderstaning. I have not called or texted since then. Waiting until Friday. I plan on Friday to send a text just one answerd or not. saying Would you like to meet for lunch to talk? If so name the place and time. If she dosn't answer, I will wait a few days and try it again. If that is not answerd I accept that it is over. Am I making the right play here?
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reader, "I hAvE mY oN pRoMbLe" +, writes (2 July 2009):
don't chase her just move on its to many beautiful womens in the world that god has made for you. if she don't want you then there someboy else that will love to have a sweet man like you
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