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writes:I think I want to ask this question to guys out there. Lets say you have a girlfriend of 8 months (not living together), you get along well, haven't really had any big problems, you've met her kids, you go on dates every friday and saturday and sometimes during the week. Well there's also this other girl that you know she likes you very much and she is not keeping it quiet. She's very outspoken about it, everyone knows it and she's even told you to let her into your heart and that she will show you how much she loves you. She is insistent.What do you do and why? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 September 2011): Just tell her you have a gf and aren't really looking to go out with her.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (13 September 2011):
 What to do: You tell the other woman in an outspoken way that you are in a committed relationship and you are not interested in her and to stop bothering you.
Why? Because you are in a relationship already.
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (13 September 2011):
 Well yeah, what So-very-confused said. Also might be useful to have context on who she is... best friend? boss? random? ex? friends sister?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 September 2011):
 do you even have to think about this?
if you are committed to your gf you tell this hussy of a woman to stop it. and you don't give in to it.
besides if you do and then break up I bet she stalks you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2011): did you give her reason to believe that you are single? Have you made it obvious that you're interested in her? ie - have you openly flirted/sent off any signals, intentional or not?if you like the other girl, leave your GF. if you're that interested in another person, she doesnt really deserve your attention.If you dont like the other girl, tell her to back off - that you're in a relationship and she needs to keep her distance. Then forget her as much as possible and try and focus on your relationship.She seems a bit obsessive?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (13 September 2011):
 I say see both of them when you prefer... .and let the chips fall where they may. Neither is entitled to "own" you.....Good luck...
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