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writes:I wouldn't normally write something like this,but i need some type of advice. Last year i had a new teacher at school, at first i never exactly got on with him, but then he turned into my teacher and tutor. We didnt exactly get on but then he started asking me why i hated him so much, and he was more different with me than he used to be at the begining of the year. He had a lot of time off, but when he was on he started a type of conversation with me every day! When he walked in to the lesson,he'd always smile and talk to me without fail. I wont lie, i do have a lot of friends; and im not sure if he was just doing it to show of in front of them! He'd always come and sit on my desk during a lesson, he'd speak to me about absolutely everything and anything and if one day,i wasnt my usual self for some reason, he'd try his best to comfort me and cuddle me. My friends noticed and always seemed to ask me whats going on between us, i'd answer nothing? However he'd just smile and wink at them! My friends would then just look down! If he found out i was in a relationship, he'd always remark, you can do so much better! At first, i excepted it was just a wind-up game he was playing, yet each day the conversation grew more and more, until the last day of term, we all got told we were moving tutors. For me; I felt a sigh of relief, however i still had to get through today... We started with watching a film, and he decided he was gonna watch it, next to me. To distract this I sat there talking loudly with my friends and giggling, honestly it annoyed him, but then we turned to the hall, and i was the last person on the register! I saw talking to a couple of friends infront of me but then i noticed they kept looking to their left and last time i looked, to my left - he was sitting there, feet up reading something. But then i noticed he was creeping more and more towards me... I moved a couple of seats to my right however he also did the same and ended up next to me. Throughout the whole thing he sat talking to me with his arm around my shoulder. He knew i felt un-comfortable but all he kept saying was "I'm gonna miss you" At one point he even said "aw, i loved having you, and i love you" which i simply replied to as "awww"! He kept shouting loud remarks and then cuddling me by pushing me onto him, slightly. His arm stayed around me for the whole time,without moving and he gave me his jacket to wear as i apparenty looked cold. I still see him every day, he sometimes smiles and i'll smile back! The begining of this year,we did talk, he still messed around with me, but then he'd say im fed up making all the effort with you. I still see him now a days, but he'll either look down or look the other way. If i'm speaking to another teacher and his there, he might smile but he mostly looks down and makes out he didn't acknowledge me. I'm not actually worried about myself anymore as of the reason's i've just listed however my friends know what he is like now. There's this girl, a year older than me, that i have noticed becoming close to him. His forever grinning at her and coming out his office break and lunch,and looking for this girl and calling her over to his office. He knows i have noticed this, but im just a little worried for her, even though i don't particularly get on with her...
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reader, femmefatale123  +, writes (17 October 2012):
 He hasn't tried anything explicit with you, but he did make you feel uncomfortable with his overt attention, which can be a sort of sexual harassment.
I would suggest you talk to a trusted counselor. Do you have a guidance counselor in your school that you can trust?
Be careful, though: you're walking a fine line. You don't want to accuse someone of something they didn't intend and jeopardize their employment, but, on the other hand, you don't want to gloss over the behavior of someone who's a potential pedophile. If he truly is a pedophile, he might get brave and try to go further with another student.
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reader, Daisy_Daisy +, writes (16 October 2012):
 I think you should talk to your guidance teacher (or whatever equivalent you have at your school). His behaviour is totally inappropriate and you are right in being concerned about his interest in young girls. You shouldn't keep this to yourself.
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reader, Cherub_88 +, writes (16 October 2012):
It's simple. Report himStraight away next time ur at school. Tell someone. He is clearly a predator and he abusing his position. Report him!!
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