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What would woman think of me defending my girl's honour like this?

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Question - (1 November 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 31 January 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *rans Am Man writes:

Ok this question is directed towards the women. I just want to know, if you're a guy is it ok to punch another man because he said something about his girlfriend. What do women think of that.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (31 January 2010):

Personally I don't want to date baboons and I think a man that can be physically violent that easily could also have serious problems.

I don't want to deal with serious problems. I want a boyfriend, not a DIY project.

I have had someone insult me in front of my husband and my husband calmly told this guy that if he didn't apologise he would be in serious trouble. (He said it slightly less politely than that.)

The guy went a bit pale, said he was sorry and disappeared. My husband then apologised to me for his language and gave me a hug to check I was ok. I respect him far more for having the self control to handle a situation and scare a guy off with a few words rather than having to resort to anything else.

What a woman wants is a gentleman. A man who they know could very easily beat the crap out of anyone who bothers then, but solves things in a calm way whenever possible. If you have the confidence and posture then you can get rid of anyone causing problems just by looking at them in the right way.

Punching someone straight away just screams of fear and desperation to me.

You are not an animal, so try not to act like one.

Good Luck!! xx

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