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*heesy18
writes:I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for one month now. I find that i have huge commitment issues and usually read way more into a situation than needed but keep my feelings to myself. I thought things were going fine until he lost his wallet at my house. I have looked everywhere so im thinking he had taken it and maybe dropped it somewhere because it is NOT in my house i raided it. I told him this and he told me to keep looking which i am because really maybe i missed something but they he said "i dont care if the moneys gone i just need the important stuff." and then he had said maybe my brother took it? should i be alarmed i dont think thats something a boyfriend should be saying to me.? Wat do you think i know it may seem like nothing but it matters. What would make him say that and should i be alarmed?
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reader, cheesy18 +, writes (2 December 2009):
cheesy18 is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (2 December 2009):
Ok, fair enough. But that doesn't mean he has to trust him like you do.
I still don't quite get what you want to get in answer to your question.
This is not really a problem at all, it's just a bit unpleasant for you to be stuck in the middle of.
As for whether you should stay with him, you can't really use this as any kind of indicator.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, cheesy18 +, writes (2 December 2009):
cheesy18 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI'm sorry i wasnt exact. my bf and i were friends before we dated and my brother is my twin so of course we hung out he knows my brother its not like they are just being introduced.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (2 December 2009):
He doesn't know your brother and if the wallet is gone then it's natural and normal to suspect it's been stolen.
Just because he's going out with you doesn't mean he automatically respects trusts and adores your brother.
If you don't like being in this relationship then end it. Why are you looking for us to give you an excuse? Just tell him you don't want to be with him.
Good Luck!! xx
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