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writes:I am a 22 year old boy and I was in love of a girl. She proposed to me last year she told me that she loves me, I liked her too so I accepted her proposal. After 2 years of close relationship she is telling me that she doesn't want it any more. I love her more than my life but she left me. I cried against her but she left me, she told me that I love you but if my parents would see me she told me that she is not going 2 have any relationship with me. I have three sisters and my mother my father passed away at the age of 11, every one is dependent on me. Tell me what to do. I can't leave without her, she was really rude when she left me. Please help me, I am writing these words with lots of tears on my face.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): She doesn't love you and she most probably isn't the right girl for you, if she was she wouldn't have done that. Yes it hurts, it always does when it comes to matters of the heart but she won't realise what she had till its gone. She will regret it definitely but you should get on with your life and love urself. I feel your pain, she was rude so she doesn't care.A women will possibly enter ur life who does care. Yes you may not want another women in your life right now but love yourself, go through the emotions and you will come out a stronger person. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): I love what Star wrote...and I agree. Only 22, how fantastic for you, you have your whole life ahead, and what an adventure. Hold you head high..I know the pain of love...and it's bad..but look at it as an opportunity to find the right girl for you, who will love and cherish you like no other. She was just not the girl for you...there will be someone else out there waiting for a lovely person like you. Be strong for your sisters...they need you. Dry those tears...it's okay to be sad for a while, let those feelings out, but think of the fun you will have in your years ahead. Keep busy, time will pass and the hurt will fade. Good luck and fortune to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): Dry your tears - you don't want to add a broken computer to the list of other things that you need help with.
Ignore the words she spoke these are small noises that pass on the wind. The heat of the moment, the emotion all lend itself to things not meant to be said or hurt.
The fact is if she isn't interested then there is nothing you can do. You have to move on and be pleased and proud of what you shared. I know that hurts (lots) and your heart wants to burst.
That's the bad news - the good news is not actually your heart that is hurt. so what is actually hurting??
My guess its your head. Not the outside of course - i am sure that is beautiful. I think your inside is stuck and you are thinking and that's why it hurts.
Anyway i have some questions for you:
1) A man dressed all in black is walking down a country lane. Suddenly a large black car without any lights on comes round the corner and screeches to a halt.
How did the driver know there was a man in the road?
2) A fishing boat is lying in the harbour. There is a rope ladder hanging over the side with its end touching the water. The rungs of the ladder are 1 metre apart and the tide is rising at 50 centimetres an hour.
At the end of 6 hours, how many of the rungs will be covered?
ok so what happend there - did you forget about her for a few seconds while your brain was doing something else? did it?
ok so my cure for your broken head is:get your head busy.
think of anything but her - think of where you want to go on holiday. What you would do if you had 24 hrs in Rome. go out meet people. talk to people , take up a hobby, write a novel...build an elephant from chocolate (life size), go to the gym.....but most all think of anything but her - use Kareena kapoor as surrogate when you think of her.....
keep your head busy - your heart will follow....
Star.x.
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