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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:HiIt has always been going good with my hubby who is polite and caring. Then there came another guy whom i have known for years and have real care and concern for him. There was no guilty feeling until i was roaming with him and buying things. now i am pregnant and i am afraid who is the father. it was the biggest mistake i had ever done.. I always want to stick to my husband and want to be true to him. i have told the other guy about this confusion and he has moved away from me, to make me tension free. I love my husband and i am feeling too bad for the one day blunder i did with the other guy. now that i am 3 months pregnant, what should i be doing? is it possible to keep my confusions away? what will happen if the child is born. i dont know... plz help. Reply to this Question
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female
reader, anon642  +, writes (6 October 2008):
 First of all, i really want to sort this part..
'What will happen IF the child is born?'
Does this mean you are not ready for a child or thinking of not having this baby.?
If not, your 3 months pregnant, time is running out.
You really need to consider this and fast.
If you decide to keep the baby, the real biological father deserves to know, never mind the fact the child also deserves to know who their real father is.. so as soon as the baby is born, get a DNA test done.
Also, does your husband know about this one night?
If you love him as much as you say you do, he deserves to know.
Please, think about this.
I wish you all the best.
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