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writes:Right, I'm in this relationship with this guy, and there was rumours he kissed this girl at a party etc, this was about a month ago, he assured me it was just a peck, although another person said different but majority said the same story. i like him a lot, and new i could get over it, we've gone on perfect, maybe even better as i realised how much i like him now, and i think he has too.then i started getting a bit bored of my boyfriend, and this other guy likes me, and i was really intrigued by him, and at a party i kissed him, i don't like him that way now i've realised and we're just friends, do i need to tell my boyfriend that i've kissed him or is it ok just to let this one go if i'm sure i won't do it again?don't judge me etc aswell:) i've been cheated on a lot and never cheated, just i don't know why i did, thought i liked this other guy but now i've realised how much i like my boyfriend.xxxxxxxxxx Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (23 May 2010):
So long as you're sure that no one will tell him, then say nothing. But don't let it happen again,.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo one at the party knows him, and i kissed my friend like we're still close. so don't you think i should leave it? and not tell him? isn't it for the best if it would hurt him, and me? xx
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (20 May 2010):
The moment you cheat, you're in trouble. You said you were bored. Well what happens when you feel that way again? Will you cheat again? You've already done it, so it's time to really look at your relationship with your boyfriend and work out whether you really want to be with him. This is how you can get a bad reputation, which is something that you don't want, I'm sure. So, first of all, really think about whether you want to be with your boyfriend.
Secondly, you were at a party when you kissed this other guy. If there is any chance that it could come out, you have to tell your boyfriend and hope for the best. The worst thing is finding out that your partner has cheated not by them, but by other people. So if there is a chance he might find out, tell him. If not, don't.
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