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writes:So I'm 17 years old and recently moved in with a guy who is 20. When I moved in with him I also ended up dropping out of school. Prior to doing that I was a really good student with a 4.0 GPA. I only knew this guy for about 2 weeks before I moved in with him. I've been living with him for about a month now and I dont know what to do because I dont think I care for him as much as I care for a guy who I was talking to before I met him. But I cant really leave him because my mom put my car in his name and told me when I moved out that I couldnt move back in. So I guess my question is what do I do? I cant move out or I'll be homeless and my car is in his name and I really want to be with the other guy but I'm not sure if he is ready for commitment. So help....PLEASE!!
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reader, rcn +, writes (21 November 2008):
 Why do you feel at your age living with a guy is the right choice? Going from a 4.0 to not being in school? What dreams and goals did you have before. I don't think you'd get excited and dream about dropping school and living with someone you don't really care much for. Are you on track or is this part of the process to getting to where you want to go in life?
I'm worried about why you made a choice that has such a negative impact on your life. I'm also worried about why your mom would allow this to happen. Depending on what happened between you and her, I wouldn't rule out talking to her about it. Sometimes parents, as well as children say things they don't mean. I watch what I say with my children, and guarantee no matter how upset they were with me or I would be with their decision, they'd always be welcome at my home.
Remember, guys come and go and you'll have to live with your decisions no matter who you're with or times you're single. Those decisions develop who you are and what you're able to do in those moments of change.
Take care.
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