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female
age
26-29,
*luelesslovechild
writes:Hi my name is alice. to start this off ..i fell inlove with a boy we'll call D. for three years now. we shared the same feelings so i thought.but , about six months ago, i lost my virginity to this fellow. and efter he acted weird(it was not his first time) when he left he texted me and said " we shouldnt have done that" i agreed, then he said not to ever tell anyone , and to not ever talk to him again..i was devasted. months later. in january , he apologizes sincerely , i told him i forgave him along time ago, because if i didnt forgive him, there was no way i could have forgiven my self for the mistake i also took part in. we talked more, became bestfriends again, and then on day he asks for a certain picture. i deny. and he gets mad and doesnt talk to me for a week. when we start talking again we get closer and closer, and i fall for him more and more, but then he starts acting different as he doesnt wanna talk to me.i ask him whats wrong and he says im tired of the shit.and i ask what hes talking about and he says " my friends ask if i like you, and i say yes, they say your cute, but i shouldnt date her, because shes "not skinny" or athletic " . i laugh because i knoe how beautiful i am. and i knoe i dont need to be a stick to have someone love me. yes im curvy but not obese.i say " well... lol. i knew that was coming. be being bigger has never ever once stopped you from liking me before . and if you listen to them, than thatll just make you as shallow as them. but if you would like to try and find a girl thats skinny and all that, i doubt shell care for you as much as i do." his reply.." im sure i could . my realtionship wth **** was great until i messed it up i may start talking to her again.". i was speechless.how could he be so careless about what all ive done for him. ive always been there for him . through family issues, through friend issues, through EVERYTHING. and it seems like he does everything in his power to make me feel like nothing!. any words of advice would be great! i dont really have a question but i cant help but feeling helpless in this situation :(.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 May 2011): Seriously, he's being mean. You have to get as far away from his as possible! Really, don't come back to him, he's not good for you.
There are lot's of better guys out there!
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