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female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:Over the past 2 1/2 yrs, I've fallen in love with a wonderful man and he says he loves me too BUT I have this fatalistic feeling that I am not the perfect match for him. I feel like he should have a financially savvy (CPA or stock broker), younger, never married, childless woman. I am the polar opposite. What do I do? Should I just keep this feeling to myself and just enjoy the time we have together or should I break up and find a man who is marriage minded and ok with a divorced mother of 3 who's past her child bearing age. He wanted to marry his last GF but he sees too many complications with me to see marriage at this time - I see that as just an excuse. If a man wants a woman he'll do whatever it takes to be with her. I get the feeling he's just enjoying my love and time until someone better catches his eye. Is it just my imagination or are my instincts dead-on?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (28 November 2012):
 IF you are having a good time then enjoy. WHY do you have to be the judge and jury of who he should love and be with?
IF you want MARRIAGE and he does not, then you must end it.
You are right that he's just biding his time till he meets someone he is willing to marry...
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