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writes:Hello,I am 16 years of age and am a virgin. It's kind of bad between me and my mum so I was kind of hoping to ask questions here. So my friends gave me ways to masturbate but none of them seem to work for me. Does anyone have any ideas? If so I'm all ears thanks :) Reply to this Question
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reader, person12345  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 I agree with watching a little porn to get things going. If you just sit down and go, k I'm gonna masturbate and start jamming your fingers in there, it's probably not going to feel very good. A little porn or reading erotica can really help you to get turned on, which makes it just feel more instinctual. Also, everyone has a different way of masturbating. I recommend the website clitical.com, they have some great ideas. Many women find a vibrating showerhead to be a GREAT way to do it. Also, have you thought about buying a vibrator? You can buy small bullet ones for not very much money, especially online. Your mom doesn't have to know and it will be MUCH easier to know what your "goal" should be if you have a little aid to get you there first. Reaching orgasm with only your hands can be fairly difficult at times.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Did you try and twist of the shower head and use the water to stimulate you? That is the best tip I can give anyone, unless they can go get a vibrator. A vibrator, for example the bullet, works wonders.
Only the very talented can get off by themselves using only hands.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): Google "Clitoral"
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reader, lotus mama808 +, writes (21 July 2010):
 YAY! I am so happy to hear that you are intrested in masterbating, rather than actually having sex at your age. AWESOME! I hope my daughter does the same. I must confess, I didnt experience my first orgasm untill I was 25, but don't let that discourage you. Masterbation is the best way to learn about your sexual desires, and it is your body, you will know best what it is you enjoy. I discovered that I enjoy using glass "toys" rather than latex (which often is the cause of yeast infections, bladder infections and so on). Silicon is also pretty sanitary. Adult films are good, but again, there are so many variations some might turn you on, some might disturb you, it is a matter of finding the kind that work for you. Rubbing the clitoris in a circular motion while penetrating is effective for me, but again, it is all about you, your likes, your pace, your ideas of what is sexy and what is not. Love your body, and don't feel weird about masterbation, it is normal, healthy, and the world would be a better place if more girls your age did this instead of getting pregnant, catching STD's and dropping out of school. Your a smart girl! :) Lots of love
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (21 July 2010):
You are 16 and got your whole life! ahead of you why rush.
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