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writes:i had sex on the 10th of july and i dont use contreception with my fiance...we use withdrawel method, wen he pulled out he didnt do it quick enough and caught just of the inside of my vagina and the rest on my clitoris and groin...i was due on my period 4 days ago, is it to early to do a test and i hope i not preg i got so much stress on at the moment. pleasse help
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (25 July 2010):
 Explore others means of contracetives, even if you are allergic to latex there are condoms made out of other things (can't remember the name at the moment) so if you don't wamt to be pregnant, but want sex, take responsibility and find a contraceptive that works for you.
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (25 July 2010):
Well this time you aint? what about next time. why arent you on the pill? if he cannot use latex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks all that helped....i dont wanna be preg but he alergic to latex and docs cant do much coz i strong atibiotics so they say go careful and it the only method i can think of ecept dont have sex. but i aint pregnant i came on today
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): I don't believe that you don't want to get pregnant because if that was the case you would have gone to get emergency contraception, so I don't know why you put that bit in.There is every likelihood you are pregnant. I think the best way to tell early is to get a blood test at the Dr's.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (21 July 2010):
The pull out method is a method for getting pregnant really. If you don't want to be pregnant use a contraceptive. Or you could have taken the morning after pill. That is, of you really didn't want to become pregnant.
Yes, you might be pregnant. Go to the pharmacy and get a pregnancy test. They can be taken as soon as 6 days before your expected period. The best time to take one is after your period was supposed to be there, but isn't. Do it in the morning, and follow the instructions.
"i hope i not preg i got so much stress on at the moment." I can not even begin to point out just how naive this sounds. I am sorry, but if you really can not handle being pregnant at this time of your life why on earth did you have unprotected sex? Don't do this in the future unless you want children.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2010): For god's sake, just knock the whole withdrawal method thing on the head. I'm living proof that it doesn't work, and so are my brother and sister. That's catholics for you!
You cannot possibly relax and enjoy yourself if your partner is not coming inside you. He won't be enjoying it much either.
I hope you are not into the accidentally on purpose pregnancy, and that you will only have had a near miss.
This is the time to get proper contraception.
x
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reader, Honeygirl  +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Very possible that you are pregnant. Go and buy yourself a home pregnancy test. If you are not pregant, then make some plans to sort out your contraceptives, dont leave things up to chance.
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reader, HollieMc +, writes (21 July 2010):
 There is a good chance you are.
Because he came inside there is an 82% chance that you are, but also you may not be.
Here are some things to look out for in the mean time, 'till you can take the test. (Although everyone does not get the same syptoms of pregnancy.)
If you are pregnant You will become very tired within a couple of days, and your stomach will start cramping as if you will start your period, but you will not (but like i said, if you are pregnant)
And often you get heartburn, dizziness, and have lack of energy, also feeling like you may get sick if you are even the slightest bit hungry, and just the "feeling of being pregnant"
ALSO, this may sound strange, but you can actually smell your urine, and if it smells different, (i cant explain the smell, but you would know)
Then you are most likely pregnant. Because the smell you would smell if you were pregnant is an increase of hormone that is building up in your body, preparing for the child.
So just look out for those things. Some ppl do not notice anything for a while, and others feel them almost the next day!
good luck, hope i helped :)
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (21 July 2010):
 Not to add to your distress, but the withdrawal method is about the worst birth control method ever devised. If you can't handle getting pregnant, then you need to find another more reliable birth control method. There are plenty more options out there than there used to be. Go see your gynecologist and discuss your options--both hormonal and non-hormonal.
Good luck.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (21 July 2010):
I think some of the tests can detect really soon after a missed period, in fact, now, for you. Why don't you go down to the chemist's (pharmacy is the word we use in the US) and get a pregnancy test?
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (21 July 2010):
You might be? go buy the test and take it we know just about as much as you do! but the test will tell you for sure.
Good Luck!
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