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writes:what type of a foreplay can arouse the couple to have enjoyable sex ... in the past i've been addicted to porn and masturbation, as a result got the problem of delayed ejaculation, I still have tht prob. I've been reading alot about what women want, and what men want ect sort of stuff on the internet, and now i need to know what all shud she be doing (in terms of foreplay activities) to arouse me in such a way that the moment i enter i should cum in abt 5-6 minutes... currently it takes me 2 hours and still cant cum... on the other had..she gets to enjoy the orgasms one after another...max i cud give her were 11 ..and min is 4... i've been out in a different country for a month now will see her after 30 days.. and looking forward to a rigrous raw sessions of sex...(i did masturbate but like 6-8 times in a month..and not doing it for last4 days..and wont do it now till i get to do her again...say for another 6 days...) .. we're looking forward to concieve a baby soon now...pls help..Sam
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2010): I don't think most women are going to be too unhappy with a guy who can last longer than 5 minutes. (Usually women have a problem with Quick Draw McGraw..) If the foreskin won't uncover the trouser snake you might have to have an operation... (I do not envy you on that) Biggest thing to remember ?? The biggest sex organ you have is your mind. If your 1/2 as stressed as you say that will only make things worse!! Relax your stress stop thinking "what is wrong with me??" Most guys have to "retrain their brain" to last longer and pleasure the woman,, you have the oposite issue. R.E.L.A.X !!
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reader, veronika  +, writes (6 February 2010):
 You'd probably have more success aiming for something a little longer than 5 or 6 minutes, because you might be a little ambitious to try and go from not having an orgasm at all in 2 hours to having one in 5 minutes.
Also, 5 to 6 minutes isn't very long at all for the "average" sex session. I know you must be frustrated, but it's probably better to aim for somewhere like 20 - 25 minutes rather than 5 because it might be easier given the problems you're having with ejaculating.
Try not masturbating for a while before you have sex with her, that way there's probably more of a chance you'll release.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 February 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i know it would be even more pleasureable for her if the session lasts as long as like a couple of hours and multiple orgasms in all possible positions...
however, the concern is to concieve a baby, and i shouldn't suffer from the frustration of not being able to cum inside her at all... i think her pleasure is importantant and mine too...
i m really getting scared now... i forgot to mention that my foreskin is a little tight and lets only 20-30% of my pink penis head come out and rest stays inside all the time.. i have got not pains and no problems with it at all..
and wud also like to mention that when i masturbates, it takes me around 10-15 minutes to cum...
i dont know wht should i do... is it kinda normal...? as i nvr really had sex before i married her...
and i am always ready for a rigrous sex session..yeah i m horny..always horny..
i need to know how can i cum inside her in a timely manner and should be able to concieve and have a healthy baby...
pls help..
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reader, Not My Name +, writes (5 February 2010):
 Sorry, but if my guy made a habit out of blowing in 5-6 minutes we would have some issues to be worked on.
Are you sure this is what she would want and be satisfied with?
If yes, then you tell her what does it for you coz I don't suppose she is a mind reader, ... if not then make sure you satisfy her first and then ask for whatever will get you to the finish line.
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