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male
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Hi everyone.I am 27 and I fall for a colleague who is 35.She hinted that she doesn't want a boyfriend who is 8 years younger than her. She also said she is in a relationship for years.I asked her out few times. She brought her friend along. Then, I asked her not to bring her friend because it will be a date. I am surprised that she agreed.Personally, I don't think she is in a relationship because we been going out for the last 3 weekends, only the last time we are alone though.Today we got off earlier and invited her to have lunch. She said that I should tell her earlier because her mom might have cooked her lunch. Anyway in the end, we did have our lunch together.She seems to be ok with accidentally body contact. There is no drawback and she acts like normal. I am not sure but I guess ladies normally have wider personal comfort zone with those they don't like.I don't know how she feels about me and I don't see she is that hyped talking to me compare to her friends. What you all think? Is there a way that I can confess without making it too serious? We see each other almost every day at work, I don't want it end up awkward. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2010): no i dont think you should "confess " anything. if you enjoy her company you should continue to do what you are doing until you can see that she either is growng more interested or less. if you force the issue now i think she will be uncomfortable and break all contact. just my thoughts i could be wrong....let her have a chance to know and grow to like you is my advice. good luck, mal
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