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*iego9494
writes:Okay, so I am 16 years old. I have been through a lot recently and I need to know how to get over this girl. Me and her were dating for 1 month, we knew each and were talking for about 3 months. In that time she became my world, I cared about her so much. I would wake up and think about her immediantly. She said she felt the same. She broke up with her ex for me and I really thought we would last. The 3 months we were together were amazing, I was never happier, and still haven't been happy since. After a month of dating she broke up with me because she missed her ex. I was devastated. I loved the girl, and I know it because she was everything to me. And she made me believe she loved me. Now that she was gone she was always with her ex. After 3 days of us being apart she told me she had moved on. I was so devastated. But I knew this wasn't the end. On valentines day she started dating the kid. She told me over and over she missed and stuff and now she was dating him. After about a week of her and her new bf were dating she started cheating on him with me, almost everynight. I would sneak in her window and stay the night. After about a month of doing this we evebtually got caught by her mom. After that the girl wouldn't talk to me or anyrhing for the longest of time. Then finally we started talking again. I snuck over to her house again and this time got caught by the police and got arrested. Her parents now hate my guts. Its been about two months since then and I weant her back so bad, but I also want to be over her. She keeps dragging me and leading me on and then hurting me again. Its so hard. What should I do to get over her or to get her back
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (9 June 2011):
 That is the difference between infatuation and love.
With love, you can not HELP but go on about a person and exactly why they mean so much to you. None of the reasons will be superficial or self-centered.
Superficial/Self Centered
"She is so pretty and makes me feel great about myself".
"The sex is awesome"
"I can't help myself"
What really makes us fall in love is not JUST how they make us feel, but how they make us feel about life! They make us want to be better people and bring out the best of our charachters. Even if they are no longer in our lives, we feel like we are better people, merely because they passed through ours.
Sometimes people come into our lives for a reason, a season, or a lifetime. Just because someone comes into our lives, does not mean they were meant to stay forever. Learn from the experience and you will be wiser in your relationships later.
Best Wishes.
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reader, diego9494 +, writes (9 June 2011):
diego9494 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionVery true. Sadly I can't even answere tht question. Thank you, tht really put things in perspective.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (6 June 2011):
Feel like getting arrested again? Her parents want you out of her life. She plays with your feelings.
You want her because........???
Finish this sentence. What I really miss about her is.....
Whatever those reasons are..are they worth the trouble?
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