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writes:When a person just stops contacting you,does that mean they don't care about you, or could it mean that they do care, but they are afraid to speak to you, and possibly don't want to talk incase they upset you, or incase they get upset themselves ?. This guy i was seeing hasn't actually said he has dumped me, but he apparently told one of his friends that i did something wrong and his friend said he was crying too. However, his friend also said that he said that he thinks the world of me. It's so confusing !. He had also said that he wanted to talk to me ( that was the last thing he said to me ) but he hasn't. I have tried to contact this guy, but he won't speak to me. I worry about bumping into him around town too, which is very likely, as we live in the same town, and it's a very small area. How do you think i should act if i see him ?. Should i ignore him or try to speak to him ?. I worry that i will get really upset when i see him too, and i keep trying to avoid going into town as much as possible, unless i have to go there for some reason. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2011): To the anonymous poster, i also wanted to ask what happened with your guy? Did he ever get back in touch with you, and if so, what happened? I feel awful. I haven't been eating and sleeping properly, and i keep crying. It's hard for me to concentrate when I'm at work too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2011): He may be a coward and is too gutless to phone you and say its over (this happend to me).
Or perhaps he "is in his cave" and is just taking time to think things through.
How long has it been since you spoke to him?
I totally sympathize with you by the way. When the guy i was seeing simply started to ignore me it really drove me crazy and killed my self esteem.
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