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What should I do sexually without actually having sex? 16 and planning to make my couple happy.

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Question - (19 December 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 19 December 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey well the thing is like this, i am 16 years old and i want to make my couple happy, so please show me tips to turn him on or something (:

i dont want to have sex right now but i would really appreciate advise on how to play or just make him comfortable with me, i mean what do i do when things get sexually without having sex? please help

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A male reader, CorpusDei United States +, writes (19 December 2007):

CorpusDei agony auntThere's a lot that you can do while remaining a technical virgin. For non-penetrative you have oral sex, handjobs/mutual masturbation, sensual massage, grinding (dry humping - do they even call it that anymore?). For added fun, take it to the tub if you've got one big enough.

But, and I underscore this, get a pack of condoms anyway. I know you're not planning to have sex, but it sounds like you're on your way, and you need to have them when and if you a) decide in the middle of the shower that you do, indeed, really want to have sex, or b) he pressures you into it (and he'll be pressuring you, I have no doubt)

So go out, _you_ get the condoms and stash them in your sock drawer or something so he's not getting any ideas, and good times. Have fun.

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