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writes:Hey guys and galshey guys i have a girl friend we love each other so much but my feelings for her have dimmed recently...you see last week i meet this girl at fencing we talked and surprisingly we had a lot in common we liked reading and enjoyed fencing and athletics and i had this burning feeling in my heart i loved her but i could bring my self to say it we looked at each other for a few minutes then we nearly kissed i refrained cos i had a girl friend and i told myself to get together i love Emma (that's her name) and i think she likes me to but i don't want to break my girlfriends heart and date someone else also i don't want to ask her out while i have a girl cos then ill become a player and i don't like becoming one being loyal to one and loving her with all my heart is my main aim .we still see each other and i get frustrated every time i see my girlfriend i love her but not as much i want to spend all my time on Emma but my current girlfriend has tighten her grip on meWhat should i do? should i break up with my girlfriend i don't know what to do I never knew love was this difficult!!Thanks a lot guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks it helped. I think i'll go with the girl at fencing. We kissed today, i couldn't help it
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2010): You are very young and you should be going out with different girls not getting overly serious with one. The thing is to be honest and straight forward. That is the fair way to go about things. It does not make you a player. As long as you tell your current girlfriend in a honest clear way that you want to finish (if that is what you want), she will be upset for a while. But believe me, that is part of life at your age. You need to meet different people so you can know what you want out of life. It prepares you for later on and dealing with more complicated relationships.
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reader, sunandstars +, writes (17 December 2010):
You should never be dealing with two girls at one time, get one out of the picture before dealing with the other. If you're going to get with the girl at fencing try to break up with your girlfriend before you get with the other girl and give your girlfriend time to recover or she'll still think you're a player. And if you decide to stay with your girlfriend make sure you don't do anything intimate with the girl at fencing. I feel if you truly loved your girlfriend you wouldn't have feelings for another girl, you're too young to get yourself in trouble with cheating etc. Hope this helps.
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reader, petina1 +, writes (17 December 2010):
 It's perfectly normal to have these mixed feelings at your age. No way should you be tied to one girl if you are thinking like this. Let your girlfriend down gently and see where you go with the other girl. If you can't do this and still want to see the other girl, then you will be a player. One girl at a time. You are too young to be stuck to someone now.
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