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anonymous
writes: i like my boss a lot and i think she likes me. i have a fear that if i make a pass at her, i may have been wrong that she likes me and from then on my days here are numbered. she is married though but i know for a fact that they hate each other and she wants out but doesn't know how. im not going to tell her or make suggestions how because it is none of my business. if i was positive she likes me id make a move. is there any way to test her to see if she may be open to an offer from me ? i never could read women and i am 52 yrs old but this one can be important because if we like each other we are both on the last half of our lives and we should be happy. any suggestions ?
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reader, niki20 +, writes (7 April 2009):
hello. i suggest you have sit down "professional" sit down chat. just calmly ask her her feelings for you. if you know for a fact that she cant stand him and says she hates him, make sure its not a phase. my husband and i can have that phase once or twice. i think its harder when it comes to a married women, but you have to look at it from a third party view. maybe there hacing income problems or something. they married for love, maybe its still there maybe not. i believe that it could be ppssible for her to like you to. the only sure way is to ask. sure it might be akward but if you have faith that shell tell you the truth then ask. let me know if you need anything else. good luck
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