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writes:I am 16 and a sophomore in High School. I am absolutley madly in love with my World Studies teacher. He's married and has two kids. I think he is about 38. At the beginning of the year I didn't really have feelings for him. Then, I started to fantasize about him. I tried my hardest not to fall in love, but failed. We had a pretty good Teacher/Student thing going on at the beginning of the year and well into december. Then, after Christmas break, that changed. He became weird around me. He avoided me at all costs. I long more than anything to know what he is thinking. Just to tell him how I feel would make this a whole lot easier. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008): Crushes on schoolteachers are very common.
He is probably backing off so you don't get the idea he would do anything about it. Apart from the fact that he is married and also has children, he could get into trouble getting involved with a pupil.
Try to forget about him and find someone your own age. You'll have more fun.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (18 April 2008):
I think Awesome is right.
He has probably noticed / found out about your crush.
If he doesn't handle this right he could get sacked or lose his marriage. It could ruin his life.
If he's choosing to ignore and avoid you then it's his choice, but it is most likely because he knows about your crush.
You need to leave him to it, and work on moving on.
If you carry on trying to talk to him or anything he is going to have to tell the head and can you imagine how embarrassing it will be for a senior teacher to sit you down and explain to you that you have to leave him alone?
Avoid him too and find a guy who isn't married to have a crush on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, awesome +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Did u show him u liked him and that's why he started acting wierd? Or why? Was it all of a sudden? Have u told anyone that might of told him u like him? Maybe he found out and doesn't want to get in trouble.
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reader, creativemelody555 +, writes (18 April 2008):
creativemelody555 is verified as being by the original poster of the question I need to know why this man is being so weird around me. I know that nothing can happen and all that jazz. However, I know that there is something going on in his head. I know, I know, he doesn't love me. I just want to know how to go about asking him what he is thinking without screwing up this already delicate situation by means of my feelings. I appreciate any help.
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reader, Isabella1974  +, writes (18 April 2008):
 Hi, there is nothing to do there sweety, first of all he is your teacher and would get into serious trouble if anything did happen. Secondly, he is married with children so he is not available. It is normal to have crushed on your teacher, thats all it is though, it is an infatuation you have, you may think its love but its not darling.
Try to find someone around your own age if you want a boyfriend.
I hope this helped you. take care
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