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writes:Ok, so every girl has that one guy in her life, there might be a couple of others, but either way its always gunna be him and you will never be able to get over him. Well i think ive found him. He's absolutly gorgeous, and i can't stop thinking about him. I have never actually been out with him, but for years iv'e thought, goddd i'd love to be his girl, then one night a few months back now, i was at a party and he noticed me, we flirted a little, but didn't really talk because his mate asked me to dance before he got the chance :( but i didn't leave it there, i couldn't. So i found his msn on a social networking site and we started talkin, we swaped numbers and did more flirting. Although i sometimes felt like giving up cos it was hard to make conversation and he was just giving me one word answers, but i didn't, i wanted him so much and some days we could just text all day and night without stopping. I was waiting and waiting for him to ask me out but he was always jokin sayin come see me at the gym or at work, so then i decided to go for it and ask him out but he was busy :/ i really lost hope and decided to stop being the one to chase him, which meant not textin him for a few days, then i recieved a text off him and he said sorry that he could'nt go out when i asked, i said its ok, and now its gone back to how it was before, we havnt spoke in a few days again. I really don't wanna stop talkin to him or lose him, he's that guy that gives me butterflies and he must feel somethin even just a tiny bit because he was gettin all jelous when i said i had met a guy on holiday, nothin really happened with that guy but it was a fun conversation we had lol (: now i don't know what to do.... i'm stuck on him..
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reader, CandyCurves +, writes (16 November 2009):
 Sorry About what I wrote.I pressed send by accident. Half of it doesnt make sense because I didnt finish typing.Now where was I ...2# Build a strong friendship-Get to know him properly and he'll get to know you. Talk to him- face to face.He'll remember you more that way. Talk about whatever floats your boat.Commmunication is important.Show him what a really Good friend you can be and he'll trust you. Once you get that connection going, he will feel more relaxed. And will find it easier to approach you.Once you're that close, he'll cherish you more then them girls because you're more than just a pretty face.You're also a good friend. I know that sounds really cheesy and everything but its true. Love is friendship set on fire.Tip number 3- Flirt. Tease him and joke. Guys like girls who can have a good laugh.Fun and sexy is my rule. Get up to things and dont tell him. You know his reaction when he finds out youre up to something and he doesnt know! You become a mystery lol.You sound like a girl who doesnt need help in the personality department so I say do your own thing.This boy would be a bender not to think of you as the perfect girl for him.Best of Luck!!!!!!
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reader, CandyCurves +, writes (16 November 2009):
Well here are my key rules for Wowing them guys:1# Get a makeover-Just have a pamper session!Experiment with your looks .You might like to get a new hairstyle or wear different makeup.Try a new style.Paint your nails.Just have fun with it! I usually feel more confident after a makeover, cause I feel like it gets rid of my insecurities.He wont associate you for being like them girls,when you look different.I know that sounds stupid and shallow honey ...but boys are Visual Creatures.You MUST MUST MUST stay original! If you try to become something you're not,people will tell.Remember you DONT want to change you, but DEVELOP YOU.Show him how stunning you are!2# Build a strong friendship-Get to know him properly and he'll get to know you. Talk to him- face to face.He'll remember you more that way. Talk about whatever floats your boat.s important.Show him what a really Good friend you can be and he'll trust you. Once you get that connection going . he will feel more relaxed. And will find it easier to pproach you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): Hahaa no. He's called ben. And I would do that but he doesn't really do much chasing. He wanted me to text him the next day once so I texted him saying benderrr ;) x as a joke cos I call him that and he calls me dick head loll. Then I fell asleep and the next Mornin I had a txt sayin you'd be upset if I was a wat? Lol. Then i didnt txt bk cos it was the nxt day and i ant spoke to him for a few days again now :/ l really need to get him to ummm fall? For me, cos my enemies are getting there claws into him. I dunno what to dooo??
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reader, CandyCurves +, writes (14 November 2009):
It's quite funny because I found myself in the same situation.I know exactly where you're coming from.It's fustrating how you spend time chasing him and his response isnt exactly the best . Although you know you definetly like this guy, according to what you wrote, I dont think he knows how he feels about you.If you want to know how he feels, tease him then ignore him.If he wants you, he'll do the chasing for once!He knows you like him, so he's gonna use that to an advantage.This boy isnt called Raheem Johannesson by any chance is he? Write Back
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