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writes: Dear cupid i need some help with my best mate. because she has been firlting with my boyfriend who i have been with for a month and i have liked him for like 3 years she said she is only firlting with him to make her ex jelous but i think she likes him a bit but i think she is just tryin to make her ex jealous. should i let her get in between us?should i say somthing to her?should i let a lad break mine and my best mates friendship up ?
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reader, SwimGirl26380 +, writes (13 July 2006):
 I think you should definitely tell her how you feel. If she is your best mate, then she will respect how you feel and stop flirting with your man. If she really is trying to make her ex jealous, than tell her to flirt with other men as it is making you uncomfortable when she flirts with yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2006): Talk to your mate, if she doesnt like what you saythats her problem ... but she shouldnt make you feel insecure about your relationship with your boyfriendperhaps she doesnt realise it is making you worry .
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reader, Helter Skelter +, writes (12 July 2006):
 if understandable that your best mate wants to make her ex jealous for whatever reason but she shouldnt be doing that with your bf! if she respected you and your feelings towards your current boyfriend she wouldnt be involving you or him into her plan of making her ex jealous. i think you need to talk to your best mate calmly and jus suggest another boy she could flirt with and say that that would be better than flirting with your bf.
hope i've helped in some way xxx
good luck :)
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reader, sleepychap +, writes (12 July 2006):
Personally I think that if you're boyfriend is who you think he is, and you friend is also then you should bring it up. Talk to your friend, tell her how you feel and that you dont like her doing what she is doing. If she does like the guy then maybe she isnt so good to have around when you are with him.
Talk him him about it also, let him know how you feel and ask how he does about it. Does he see it as harmless fun or does he not like it either?
You have to ask yourself, is this the kind of best friend that you want? Using your relationship to try and help her own, i'm sure there are other people that she could flirt with to make him jealous, but to me she doesnt really sound like that nice of a person.
The most important thing is to communicate your feelings, maybe she see's it as harmless fun also, and doesnt know that you dont.
Tell her and talk about it.
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reader, Lisho +, writes (12 July 2006):
 Basically tell her it aint acceptable and you dnt expect that frm ur so called best mate.
If she wanted to make her ex jealous theres so many other boys she could have flirted with, ur boyfriend should have been the last option, not the first.
trust me she aint a good mate if shes willing to do that to you, i wouldnt even flirt with my mates bf neva mind my best mate.
I think that you should just sit her down and tell her how it makes you feel and that you dnt like it. if she carrys on after that FORGET HER she aint worth.
NO YOU SHOULDNT LET HER GET IN THE WAY!
YES, DEFINTELY SAY SUMMUT!
ITS NOT HIM ITS HER. UNLESS HIS FLIRTIN TOO AND IF SO GET RID OF BOTH OF THEM.
Be assertive about urself cuz if u let people take advantage of you beleive me they will carry on.
Good luck and i hope u have other friends around you that will treat you how u deserve
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