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How can I make a relationship last, I get bored after about 2 months with a guy and dont know how to change it!

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Question - (12 July 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 12 July 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

I always have this problem. When I meet a guy, I get bored after 2 months being with him. What should I do? Spice up the relationship, but how? Or, should I break up with him, because I know he is not the guy I want to be with?

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A male reader, sleepychap +, writes (12 July 2006):

Talk about it with him! I think communication is underrated these days, why suffer in silence? Bring it up with him, tell him how you feel and discuss it. Maybe you can both bring ideas to the table. If its the sex that you wanted to spice up, maybe both write down 10 sexual experiences that you want to do, and then go through each list one at a time?

If you are sure he isn't the one though, then there seems little point in leading him on and hurting him more than needed in the future. Then again, maybe you fear commitment, and you feel like you cant settle down with just one man? Have a long think to yourself what you feel the problem is and then DISCUSS it with your partner.

Hope you get this sorted out.

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A female reader, Lisho +, writes (12 July 2006):

Lisho agony auntYour bound to get abit bored after a while but try and give it a try even when u feel bored. I knws its all good me sayn this but doing its a different thing, but im kinda talking frm experience.

im really gld that i made it work in my relationship cuz i realised it wasnt so much me being bored it was me just being Comfortable with him.

be Spontaneous and encourage him to be aswell, that will make the relationship feel fresh and new. go out and do

different exciting things with eachother cuz then ur learn new things about the person.

you carnt keep movin as soon as you get bored cuz then your never learn how to cope with it and its probably going to happen in every relationship you have. You might aswel start nw and give it a go.

good luck

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