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writes: Dear Cupid,ive been with my current bf for just over 3 months. about 1 month ago we fell out badly and nearly split up bcz of the way he was treating me and belittling me. we sorted our problems and he told me how he truly felt about me n my feelings. evrything has been great until recently. evrythings gone bk to normal,it was my birthday yesterday and he didnt even say happy birthday or bother to come and see me. i dont no wot to do. his mate says he's under pressure from the other guys but wot do i do? i dont no wether to finish it or have it out with him again. i feel like we're going round in circles and i dont want to hurt anymore.please help xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2006): I don't think he truly heard the first time. If he did, you would not be back at all the ugliness.
Tell him you are not happy with him changing just to have you back; that he needs to change for good to keep you.
You know how you want to be treated and you know what you deserve. Is this man capable of being that?
You yourself said this all recycles. This is how it is in abusive and controlling relationships.
I'd leave. Trust in your gut and in your own wisdom.
You will be far happier and the good man you deserve is still out there.
*hugs*
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2006): I really think that you need to think about what you want. There are so many people out there and there really is someone for everyone. If you are not happy or feel uncomfortable with the way that he is treating you then talk to him again and let him know, be clear that if he doesnt change back to treating you right then you will end it because you want to be happy. There raelly are plenty of fish in the sea.Hope everything works out for you,xxx
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