What should I do about my attraction towards a male co-worker? I hear he was into guys before.

A male age 36-40, *ocalboy831 writes:

Hey everyone who is taking the time to read this. This is my first posting and I kind of really need some advice. I am beggining to have a huge attraction for a co worker of mine. I knew I was into guyz before but I never actually had feelings for one. The only thing is that I really don't think he is like that or would even consider it. He is one of those guyz that knowz their hot and smilez about it. Everytime I see him I get this weird but good feeling inside. sometimes we have conversations but its never for a long time because I choose to end it quick. I don't know why I do that but I think its because I just don't want to show any sign of interest because I'm honestly scared of rejection! Scared of getting my hopes up! I mean I catch him looking at me but I don't want to take it in the wrong way because for all I know he just might be phasing out. I once heard him talking about gay people and he wasn't all that cool about it. But could that be a cover up, so he can make sure know one knows? Or could that be his personal opinion? Could he not be interested because I'm not showing any sign interest ? Could it be we are thinking the same thing and that neither of us is interested? What should I do? Can someone please help me out because I'm honestly interested in this guy...thankz

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