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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:me n this boy hav been out about 4 times before and the last time he dumped me because i didnt have enough time for him. den... my best mate told me dat she fancies him . i sed i didnt anymore but i really did. recently hes been askin me out again n ma mate sed shes over him but everi time he asks me out i can see that she really dont want me to say yes. plus im not sure it wd last long as ive taken on even more commitments dan i had last time. i wud go out with him as hes really nice and loads of people have sed dat hes ded sad wen i reject him . he even sent messages in assembly to me now evri 1 else nos dat he wants 2 go out with me. i feel really bad rejectin him but i hav so many reasons n obsticals in da way of sayin ye! please help me i rweally like this guy but i dont want 2 hurt my mate! milli king. x-x Reply to this Question
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reader, star* +, writes (14 March 2007):
If you really like him and he still likes you I'm sure your friend will understand considering you two already have history. I know you say about your commitments and dont have enough time for him and thats what split you up, but it seems he still wants you even though he knows about your time issues. I think if you do want to engage in a relationship with him, make sure he understands your commitments come first, if he doesn't agree then you'll have to choose between him and your activities.Good Luck...xXx
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (14 March 2007): Don't say yes to going out with him. Not only will you hurt your mate who still secretly (as she won't admit it to you, you can just see it by her face) you don't feel that in your heart that this time the relationship is going to work. You are only young so move on to another boy who your mate doesn't fancy plus you want to go out with. By the way you have got to remember that nobody can force you to go out with this boy, not even him.
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