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writes: Hi. Ive known this guy for ages, we used to work together when i was younger, we really fancied each other but nothing happened as i switched jobs and we lost contact.A few months ago i was out with my friends at the dancing and we bumped into each other. It was the best night ever, we spend all night talking about old feelings, we pulled and we walked me home and asked if we could meet again.We met the next day and continued to meet for the next few months 2/3 times a week. Everything was going great, he'd pick me up, cook for me, take me places, i was falling for this guy and i knew he really liked me coz he'd told me!Then he said he couldnt cope with another long distance relationship as hed been hurt before coz id didnt work out. Im back for 4 months just now for summer hols but go back to uni- which is about 70 miles away - in september but i drive back home for other commitments every weekend so i didnt see this as a problem. He plays football and works at weekends so he said that he wouldnt see he enough as hed want to and it would drive him mad so he finished it last thurday.I was really hurt so distanced myself from him, didnt contact him. Then last night he texted telling me he was sorry about the way things had worked out and has been asking what im up to. Im glad we are still friends as id miss him too much otherwise but im a bit confused as i know he likes me too, will it work out if i give him time?? I do anything for him! What do you thing? Thanks
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reader, dr.lenise +, writes (10 July 2006):
if he really wants to be with you he shouuldn't worrie about that if you are in driving distance and can still see each other often besides he shouldn't drag his past long distance relationship promblems into the situation he has now . you all just need to sit down talk about it compromise about the situation and get and understanding agree and go from there then if all fells free yourself
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