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writes: which sex posion herts the least do you fink!? im a virgin and would like some help for any ideas? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2007): If you're a virgin any position may hurt if you aren't fully relaxed. My first time was in the plain missionary position after a couple of glasses of wine and loads of foreplay. It didn't hurt at all, I loved it. Good luck.
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reader, snowbird  +, writes (1 September 2006):
 First of all, make sure that you are relaxed and ready for sex. Foreplay is very important to get you in the mood and lubricated enough for penetration.
If you are on top, then you are in control of how much you will take, how fast, how deep, etc; and you can stop whenever you feel uncomfortable.
It goes without saying that your man should love and respect you - which is why it is so important for your first time that it should really be with a man you love, trust and feel 'right' with. He should also know it is your first time, so it should be in a nice place and be a good experience for you, so that it can go happily into your 'memory banks'!
Needless to say, condoms, birth control, and making sure you are both above the legal age limits are paramount too, but "just doin' me job, mam"!!!
Just relax, take it nice and slow at first, all the rest will come naturally!
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