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writes: I am 16 and i am in love with this guy that is a lot older than me, i dont know what to do because i see him a lot and when i see him he turns me on, but he is married. I have tried to forget about him but when i see him again it starts all over. What should i do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 September 2007): Hon, all married men are liars, cheater, players. let me compare your situation with this example only,IF,you'll get involve with a married man: it's gonna be like you don't know how to swim but he will tell you come on I'm here with you I even can carry you in the ocean. But when you'll get deeper in the middle of the ocean he will tell you good bye baby,I'm sorry I have to go. How would you feel? what would you do?
Well that's exactly what everybody in here is trying to tell you. STOP thinking about this guy NOW! DON'T GO DEEPER. First of all he's not yours he belongs to someone else.
A married man is a waste of time, a dead end street. they're using people who's naive. they will tell you anything you wanna here.
I know for sure there will be a special judgement waiting for them in the last day.
listen to US for your own good. STOP seeing him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2007): Dont do anything about it, more you get involved the more you will hurt. These things never work out, you will fall for this person and you will end up hurt. Just walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2006): This kind of relationship can only end in tears. The longer you maintain it, the more tears there will be all round. Finish it sooner rather than later. Get out now. Stop all contact with him immediately. Go out with your friends and begin to forget him. In time, find a nice SINGLE guy.
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reader, gladyz +, writes (3 September 2006):
i been in this situation before, and i tell you what this is really hard. try to help your self my dear.... dont wait more time get out of that situation its hard now but its more hard if the relation will stay a little more longer. no body can really help you in this situation' only but YOU... good luck dear.. XXX
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reader, stina  +, writes (1 September 2006):
 Hi Anonymous,In order to get rid of these feelings, you need to try and stop all contact with him. Getting emotionally attached to a married man is not something you want to have to deal with. You will end up ruining his life, his wife's life and yours (for just a bit). Just go ahead and read some of the others posts on here. The stories are not pretty and I'm sure that's not what you want to get yourself involved in. Please make the right decision and occupy your mind with someone else, a hobby, friends, etc.Take care.
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reader, heva +, writes (1 September 2006):
hi you could always tell him, i know what you are going through i am inlove with my boss he has a wife and two kids and is 42 and i am 15 its hard i know but if you tell him at least it will be off you chest and hey you might start to get over him or if your really lucky he might like you too. but in the end its up 2 you. me i aint decided yet what to do so it would be really unfair to tell you what to do but listen to what your heart is tell you to do, i mean whats the worst that can happen?
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (1 September 2006):
 This man is obviously too old for you and you need to get him our of your head. The only advice I can give you is avoid him. When you're obsessed with someone like that, the only thing to do is not to see them, then you can start forgetting about him. When you see them again, as you said, it all starts coming back to you. So don't!
We all go through this at some time in our lives but it always passes in the end. If this guys married, you're never gonna get to be with him so be realistic and move on. Good luck
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