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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I'm a bit confused and need some advice. Last week I started chatting online with a very nice young lady, and we have been texting constantly every day since. I met her for the first time last night down the pub, and after we said good bye I sent her a text asking what she thought of me, her reply was that she thinks I'm a really nice guy, but she doesn't feel any attraction, but she hasn't given up and she wants to see me again. I really don't know what to make of this.Have any of the female readers felt the same way about their current partner?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): Cheers for the advice, we have been talking again today, she started texting me first, so i'll just take it slowly with her and see what happens.
I know she has had a really bad time with men in the past.
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reader, sarcy24 +, writes (28 November 2008):
 I too have not instantly felt attracted to a man but remained friends with them for years and have begun to feel differently for them over time and fallen head over heels in love with them. Infact the ones I have felt the most for were not ones I was instantly attracted to. Keep seeing her and see what materialises. Good realationships are built on friendship and trust,
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 November 2008): Maybe she has been through a tough past or may be not either way maybe she just wants to begin to trust you first before she feels anything for you, or maybe she's just looking for friendship? Either way what you should do although you haven't asked for advice and just asked whether us females have felt that way, remain friends with her, carry on seeing her and just see what developes from that but as for your question... no, if I didn't feel attracted to my current partner I wouldn't be with him.
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reader, Looshkin +, writes (28 November 2008):
 Hiya, When I first met my partner I felt the same way about him. He was sweet and charming but I didn't feel I wanted to take it any futher. We agreed to be friends and six months later we were together and have bein for the last eight months. Dont give up, she may just need some time to see what she missed the first time round. Take care
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reader, Asked Angel +, writes (28 November 2008):
 I didn't feel that way about my current partner, but i have in the past ment some men that i have not had that inital spark with, then over time i've got to know them i reilise i have fallen head over heels for them.The fact that this lady want's to see you again is surely a good sign.xx
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